Being a woman can get pretty difficult. Being a sexually active woman can get down right complicated. In my book there are three types of sexually active women.
- The Monogamist
- The Hoe
- The Inbetweener
The Monogamist is a woman that only has sex with whomever she’s in a relationship with. No one else.
The Hoe is pretty self explanatory, but she sleeps with whomever, whenever, where ever and basically has her life and pussy available on demand.
Now The Inbetweener is neither The Monogamist or The Hoe, but she is dead smack in the middle. She wants to have sex with whomever she’s interested in, but doesn’t necessarily want a relationship. She is open about her sexuality but private enough that everyone doesn’t know her secrets. She holds herself to a high standard and being a hoe just isn’t in her nature.
The Inbetweener is generally a strong, confident women, that knows exactly what she wants out of life and what she expects from herself and others. She is also not afraid to tell a man she just wants him for sex, nothing more without coming off like The Hoe.
The Inbetweener is comfortable with herself and her sexuality but lives a complicated life because society only defines women as The Monogamist or The Hoe. There is hardly ever room for The Inbetweener. Society will put her in either category, even though she clearly doesn’t fit in either.
Balancing the line of The Inbetweener is not easy. If society isn’t trying to push her one way or the other, men assume she’s one or the other. They are trying to figure out if they are just one on the roster or is she trying to start a family. There is never any room for The Inbetweener.